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MasterFalcon, i am sure there are those who enjoy the benefits of using a chastity belt, but in both lists, both pro's & con's, the one that stands out most is the very first thing listed, hygiene. Not only is it gross to not be able to clean yourself properly, but it can cause infections of the skin, painful rash, and, although this is a guess, i would imagine UTI's. For that reason alone, i would not agree to use one. In the pro list, it seems to me that subs should be "willing or even anxious to act in a way designed to arouse their Master" at all times. As a sub, i can say that pleasing Him is my number one priority &a main goal in all that i do. So the chastity seems unnecessary used as a motivational tool. But i am only speaking for myself. I have learned enough to know that it is very much "different strokes for different folks."
Also, i suppose the will & strength of the sub plays a factor in not masturbating to cum if that is what the Master desires. If He says not to, i will not. Simple as that. Maybe for a sub who has a history of being disobedient & not holding to her Masters orders it would be a good tool to use, but for an obedient sub, once again, it seems unnecessary.
Personally, i would have to consider making this a limit, but for others, i am sure it may be something that the sub enjoys for whatever reason. Just not me.
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To answer the cleaning issue, the common way others have found to keep clean is through daily showers and when nessessary most carry a small spray bottle to squirt water under the belt then dry with extra paper or even a hair dryer if no one else is there.
Chafing is felt when it first begins and this is ALWAYS brought to the Masters attention instantly. He will remove the belt at that time & address the cause of the chafing. Time is always allowed for healing.
(Unless the Master is a complete idiot)
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This is a wonderful start - I'm very pleased to see a few have posted comments and I hope others will add their posts too.
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I love the belts, including with plugs, but for an evening or activity. I have the same concerns as the other ladies about extended use.
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it certainly would work better. I don't know why so many refuse to allow this as it does make very good sense.
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Tollyboy is out of business and not even responding to inquiries anymore.
These days there is a ton of male chastity sites & devises available, but for females it is rare.
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well, I would like to thank all those who gave comments. It now seems clear all find the idea unpleasant to say the least.
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calif, thank you for a very realistic story. I can see hoe many women would wish to be the star of such a story.
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Well, I have met (online) a belt wearing woman and have been asked to be her key holder. I have accepted and we have started making the rules we both will abide by. She has been totally open with me and provided still pics of the belt on her. She soon will be trying her cam and I am in the process of making a key safe with combination lock.
I have a very good feeling about this relationship and will not be surprised if it moves forward.
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This relationship is indeed moving forward. We have spoken over the phone almost daily, the key safe I'm making is nearly finished, she has sent a package to me so we have each others physical address, and she is about to go on vacation. I will not be surprised if she asks to visit - will be delighted to meet her & show her around my home.
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Hi MM, the belts I ave seen & touched were covered with either neoprene or silacon except for the crotch shield and I think you could get that covered easily.
Can't help you with the frustration part.
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My belted girl has returned home. We did not get to meet but I think we shall in the near future. She had some surgery done and cannot be belted until she heals completely. We are now looking at air-fare here for her and if the cost is reasonable, I expect a visit in August.
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MulberryMoon, there is a belt maker that uses one form of plastic and no metal that can touch the skin. Just can't recall which one it is.
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My belted girl will be here late Sunday or Monday and I think she plans on staying 2 weeks.
She has completed healing from the surgery and says she is as excited as I am about meeting.
One of the real pluses between us is that we both enjoy being teased to arousal, then waiting. I know I'm going to do my best to keep her cooking and happy.
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Thank you wolf. Your points concerning a leather belt are totally correct.
The use of a well made and properly fitted steel belt differ only in that steel does not absorb these liquids. The attached neoprene or other linings can loosen at their edges and then become a place for bacteria to grow so cleaning is important. Of course a steel belt will not stretch as a leather one will, so it is necessary for ones body to become accustomed to such a belt. This can take as little as a couple of weeks or several months depending on the individual. Once properly fitted and conditioned to wear such a belt, removal is only needed when the first sign of foul aroma is detected when checked closely.
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Found all this to be very interesting. The use of a chastity device I use for only a day. It is a form of punishment and used when I want the sub to suffer for an orgasm that was not allowed. Since they are in it, they have to watch me get my pleasure from another all the time knowing that they could have received it if they weren't in the device. My preference. MK 
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